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so there are several ways to get rid of sadness

There was a time we are sad. Sad, sad. Saddened by many things. Death, accident, loss, abuse and invective, vituperation people and others.

There are also saddened by the appearance of the eyes, saddened by his creation, sad thinking about his fate, sad the way of life.

Some also saddened by his weakness, his faith is low, a bit of worship and so forth.

There was a time, people will feel is sadness.

Perhaps you have read this verse: "Do not grieve, for Allah is with us." (At-Tawbah: 40)

Ok, what if we still feel sad? This means there is something wrong in our hearts. In the above verse, we need not despair because God is with us. If we still grieve, means we do not feel close to God

Grief does not mean crying. Crying is a means within the framework of fear and hope to God, that we are free from the fire. Prohibited grief is grief due to impatience, do not accept this fate, and shows weakness.

That's sad Human Customs

The Prophet grief. Even the Holy Prophet sad when left by those who loved and adored him. However, the Prophet is not over in grief. The Prophet immediately rise up and fight back without extending the grief. But the syndrome among us is, we like to extend grief. As if God does not exist in our lives.

Grieve not taught

Grief (besides fear of Allah) is not taught in religion. In fact we find many verses and hadiths that forbid us to despair.

"Do not grieve, for Allah is with us." (QS.At-Tawbah: 40)

"Do not be weak, and not (too) ye grieve, but you are the highest (rank), if ye are believers." (QS.Ali 'Imran: 139)

Prophet prayed for to avoid sadness,

"O Allah, I seek refuge in You from disbelief and poverty; O Allah, I seek refuge in You from the torment of the grave. There is no God but Thee. "(HR. Abu Dawud)

How sad that we do not?

If we look at the verse and the hadith mentioned above, at least we already have two strengths, so we can continue to be in distress.

First: from the above verse (Al-Tawbah: 40) that the way to get rid of sorrow is to recognize, learn, and remember that God is with us. If we realize that God is with us, so what should we fear? What makes us sad. Almighty God, Allah, the Merciful, Allah knows what is best for us.

When grief continues to happen to us, perhaps we have forgotten or lost consciousness, that God is with us. For that we are commanded to keep the remembrance of Allah.

"Remember, only the remembrance of Allah that hearts be at peace." (Surah Ar-Ra'd: 28)

From this verse we already know how to get rid of depression, anxiety, and fear that is bi zikrillah, by chanting praises of God.

When I experienced sorrow, fear, or fear, there are three words that I often use to remembrance.

Asking forgiveness, ask pardon of God.

La illa Billah quwwata haula wala (No power capacity and no power but with Allah's help)

Hasbunallaah wa ni'mal wakiil (Allah suffices us and He is the Assistant preferably Guardian)

Alhamdulillah, sadness, anxiety, and fear to subside after dhikr with the sentences above. It should be remembered, remembrance, not only in mouth but should be extended into the liver.

Second: how to get rid of sorrow is to pray as exemplified by the Prophet. The Prophet asked Allah's help, what we are, far more in need of help of God. Then pray.

O Allah, I seek refuge with You from sighing and sorrow, weakness and laziness, I seek refuge with You from cowardice and stinginess, and I seek refuge with You from the burden of debt and dominated one (Hadith narrated by Abu Daud)

This prayer was taught the Prophet to Abu Umamah ra when he found he was bersedihan in the mosque.

Conclusion: Depression is a necessity. But do not be excessive.

Grief is good. Once in a while it softens the heart. Signs of a sensitive soul. Sign-sensitive heart.

But soaking our souls in sorrow for too long will mereputkannya.

What is the reason for extending the grief?

The sadness will never be a solution to a problem.

So see the problem, move to finish.

If the problem is not coming with a solution, for example: The death of a close, beloved teachers, parents, loved ones, etc., should be strong and look Step still available to us.

Indeed, a believer should not grieve too long.

Because he has God on his side.

And sadness is not the way a servant of God worship Him